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Girl Talk 6w
Can’t stand everyone and their wannabe therapy talk and everyone believing them. No it’s not a boundary to say if someone doesn’t have sex with you by a certain time you’re going to stop talking to them. That’s not a normal thing to say or even think
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Anonymous 6w

“You have to have sex with me by next week, that’s just my boundary” genuinely stfu

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Anonymous 6w

People not realizing normal rules for things change once you bring sex into the convo, it’s dangerous and pretending it’s not is going to lead to very dangerous situations, behavior, issues, etc.

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Anonymous 6w

I cannot stand my old roommate that said she needed the room to be her safe space. So she inconvenienced me for the entire year. I literally walked on eggshells around her. Like what about MY comfort??? I just liked occasionally listening to music in the shower but she said the noise triggered her.

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Anonymous 6w

Someone tell my ex this. Right now. Like righhhhhht now

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Anonymous 6w

i think this is a boundary. it's just incredibly toxic and dangerous

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

well, it depends on the exact language cuz you have a comment quoting him that's very different from the original posts suggestion

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Funny enough that’s actually why I don’t consider it one because going through with half of it could put another person at danger and it might just be a personal opinion but a boundary (at least in the therapy sense) should never endanger another person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Curious, how is it different? The boundary is a “either we have sex on my time whether you want to or not or I ignore you”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Yeah nvm blocked that person and the man who DMed me on here also ended up going away 💀 knew that wasn’t a safe conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

it’s not. a boundary is about creating limits to your relationship for both of your health and well being. a boundary might be “if you yell at me, i’m going to leave until you calm down and talk to you later”. it’s about reaction to behavior, because you can’t control how other people act. saying “if you don’t do this i’ll do this” isn’t a boundary, it’s the exact opposite, it’s a demand you’re refusing to accept your inability to control others and making demands of them

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