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literally still fuming about my boss chewing me out today. i asked her a question on how to fix something and all she did was tell me how i screwed up. i tried to politely clarify that i knew it was wrong, but now needed to fix it and she got madder
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Anonymous 2w

See as a recent graduate I’m getting the sense that many older women hate the young women they’re leading. They see what they could’ve been in us and they don’t wanna help us grow, they wanna push us down and I’m EXHAUSTED.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i’m hoping that’s it and it’s not personal. i’m also NOT neurotypical so my tone of voice can be kind of flat, especially if i’m focused on something (like a mistake) and can’t give extra effort to masking to raise my tone and sound more cheerful and i have rbf. idk this isn’t about men but i do feel like if i spoke in the exact same way and i was a man she wouldn’t have gotten so mad but women are expected to be more chirpy and do more emotional labor to inflate their boss’s ego.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

idk im sure i SOUNDED like a bitch (i kept adhd interrupting her BUT IT WAS AN ACCIDENT I SWEAR) and i was rbf staring her with a super flat voice (i also have a deep voice) but the CONTENT of what i was saying was appropriate. she genuinely looked like she wanted to beat my ass!!! i was like lady you trained me and you never showed me how to do this

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