
i’m hoping that’s it and it’s not personal. i’m also NOT neurotypical so my tone of voice can be kind of flat, especially if i’m focused on something (like a mistake) and can’t give extra effort to masking to raise my tone and sound more cheerful and i have rbf. idk this isn’t about men but i do feel like if i spoke in the exact same way and i was a man she wouldn’t have gotten so mad but women are expected to be more chirpy and do more emotional labor to inflate their boss’s ego.
idk im sure i SOUNDED like a bitch (i kept adhd interrupting her BUT IT WAS AN ACCIDENT I SWEAR) and i was rbf staring her with a super flat voice (i also have a deep voice) but the CONTENT of what i was saying was appropriate. she genuinely looked like she wanted to beat my ass!!! i was like lady you trained me and you never showed me how to do this