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Girl Talk 10w
someday i really need to unpack why i liked hardly being complimented on my looks in my last relationship, and why i hate when men tell me im pretty 🧍‍♀️
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Anonymous 10w

I get it, you’re feeling like it’s coming from an impure place like lust rather than love. You can def find healing in being around friends who love and compliment you from a place of platonic love

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Anonymous 10w

no same i get uncomfortable like what do you mean i look pretty with greasy day 4 hair no makeup and my eyes crusted shut and drool coming out of my mouth

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Anonymous 10w

What’s the emotion u feel when they do call u pretty

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

mostly makes me just wanna move past the comment and redirect the convo. i think my hookup phase kinda ruined hearing it, it's like yes no shit i knw im pretty thank u but pls let's move onto something else

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

HAHA

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

ya for sure a compliment from a woman makes me feel safe and good abt myself 😭 this def sounds like the root of the issue tho

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