Girl Talk on Sidechat | WHY would you ask if your bf can come along an hour before the plans we made a week ago. Obviously I don’t fucking want him to come, but I’ll sound like a jerk if I say no.

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WHY would you ask if your bf can come along an hour before the plans we made a week ago. Obviously I don’t fucking want him to come, but I’ll sound like a jerk if I say no.

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Anonymous 20h

Set the boundary anyways

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Anonymous 20h

say no. people need to understand that friendships are a one on one connection and bringing your significant other distracts them from connecting with the other person fully. it’s not fair to you for another person to be invited to plans you creared

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Anonymous 20h

the people who invite their bf are the real jerks cmon now tell them no

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Anonymous 19h

Sometimes setting boundaries makes you feel like a jerk, it do be like that. Best u can do is be polite as possible and accept that it might not go well and that’s okay

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Anonymous 19h

Say no or cancel 😂😂 that’s inconsiderate

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Anonymous 19h

they sound like a jerk for asking in the first place. set that boundary and change the plan

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Anonymous

#1 19h

I want to but it feels pointless since I’m moving at the end of the year anyway

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Anonymous

#2 19h

Yeah I’m bummed because it’s something I’ve been looking forward to all week to catch up with her. The bf and his friends are insufferable morons and lowkey racist. It’s awful.

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Anonymous

OP 19h

So youre giving in to friendships youre not attached to? Like youre still there, why neglect yourself because its impermanent?

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Anonymous

#1 18h

I don’t want to do the activity alone. Ofc they’re all late too.

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