Anonymous #1 20h

if it's long term and yall talk and hangout consistently then why not label it?

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Anonymous OP 20h

Cuz we arent a good fit for a relationship, and we dont hangout that consistently. We are friends tho and we do fw eachother romantically

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Anonymous #3 19h

girl u gotta get out of tht if ur thinking like this😭 stop prolonging ur suffering and save urself more time to find the person who DOES want that something more

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Anonymous OP 17h

Oh trust I’m way in over my head at this point, it’s been going on for almost a year and a half now

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Anonymous #3 17h

oh girl get out of there

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Anonymous OP 17h

The issue is he’s the only person I want something more with, everyone else is meh to me unfortunately AND he’s my sister’s friend so everything is being kept a secret so yeah

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Anonymous hellraiser 17h

It’s crossed my mind multiple times trust but I fear I just can’t bring myself to actually do it

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Anonymous #3 17h

I did write a long ass draft of me ending things in my notes earlier today bc he left me hanging last night again after we agreed he would come over so I guess that’s a start lol

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Anonymous #3 17h

well you’re not gonna find someone else you want if you stay attached to him. he’s making you closed off to other connections that could be entirely more fulfilling and good for u. your life is in your control. you decide what you want for yourself.

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Anonymous #3 17h

girl he will never want anything serious with u if he's getting all this in a secret non commital hookup😭 wanting something w him is wasting ur time to spend being open to ppl who actually want the same things as u

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Anonymous OP 16h

i think she knows that. it can just be really hard to walk away from something that is familiar

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