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i got the HER dating app a month ago but haven’t touched it yet cuz i’m scared 😭 i’ve never dated a girl i’ve only fucked one (sorry for posting that on main) but i’m romantically into girls so like why not right? but im scared HAHA
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Anonymous 7w

and i don’t like fingering people it’s very gross to me i don’t do slimy things and i don’t like how the inside feels and also i like having long nails. i don’t expect them to do it to me since i won’t do it to them but i fear that will turn people away

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Anonymous 7w

her is awful. it’s like 80% men

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Anonymous 7w

That app sucks you’re not missing much tbh

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Anonymous 7w

I’m confused on why you’re trying to get with women then

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

why? i am sexually and romantically attracted to them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

i’m just nervous 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

This is so valid, fingering is *not* the only sapphic experience and you have by no means any obligation to perform it in order to have a happy and healthy relationship!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

but isn’t it just for like wlw?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

yeah but it doesn’t stop them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

would it be better to use hinge and change the preference to just women lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

that’s what i do and it’s worked out pretty good so far. it’s a lot better than her tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I haven’t experienced that when I toggle just wlw

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