i got the HER dating app a month ago but haven’t touched it yet cuz i’m scared 😭 i’ve never dated a girl i’ve only fucked one (sorry for posting that on main) but i’m romantically into girls so like why not right? but im scared HAHA
and i don’t like fingering people it’s very gross to me i don’t do slimy things and i don’t like how the inside feels and also i like having long nails. i don’t expect them to do it to me since i won’t do it to them but i fear that will turn people away
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Anonymous7w
her is awful. it’s like 80% men
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Anonymous7w
That app sucks you’re not missing much tbh
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Anonymous7w
I’m confused on why you’re trying to get with women then
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Anonymous#17w
why? i am sexually and romantically attracted to them
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AnonymousOP7w
i’m just nervous 😭
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AnonymousOP7w
This is so valid, fingering is *not* the only sapphic experience and you have by no means any obligation to perform it in order to have a happy and healthy relationship!
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Anonymous#37w
but isn’t it just for like wlw?
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AnonymousOP7w
yeah but it doesn’t stop them
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Anonymous#37w
would it be better to use hinge and change the preference to just women lol
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AnonymousOP7w
that’s what i do and it’s worked out pretty good so far. it’s a lot better than her tbh