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Girl Talk 1w
Im tired of craving male validation
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Anonymous 1w

idk why people downvoted you. takes balls to say what you said if you do that. gotta put yourself first girl and realize that many men, not all, but many genuinely suck and are crappy human beings. seek your own validation

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Anonymous 1w

totally understand where you’re coming from. you will grow out of it eventually, i’m very hopeful for you. but whatever you do do NOT chase men with this current mindset, let yourself grow out of that phase first. also do NOT let it get to a point that it’s obvious to men because you will receive the WRONG kind of attention because of it. you’re beautiful girl, know your worth ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yeah i was gonna bitch about it but like whatever at least im aware. I dont want to be like this

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Oh trust I will NEVER chase omg. I just get quietly jealous and pretend I am indifferent. I think my biggest issue is that I sometimes ignore my personal needs/feelings to get temporary dopamine but this whole time I have been wanting stability and consistency from a man and that has never happened

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

also very valid and maybe more relatable than you might think? i know many girls who do this/feel that way. best solution is to love yourself more than any man in your life. don’t count on or wait on any man to show consistency. if he really cares he’ll prove it himself.

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