I knew my ex bf had secret desires to transition. I would ask and try to do his nails or makeup on him for “my fun”, but I really was trying to do it for him💔

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This is a hot take?? Oh lord the standards have fallen since I got my man (they’ve always been this bad I was lucky)

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My bf always says “that’s just not really my style” to feminine stylings instead of reacting with disgust bc he’s a really masc country type of guy. Then again I also don’t like makeup, nail polish, traditionally feminine clothing, or even shaving and he loves it :) I love him so much.

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Idk I don’t let anyone paint my nails or put make up on as well bc I have sensitive skin and I don’t want to damage my nails with polish. But ig the reason and reaction it’s important

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Plus you’d never get cute pics like this :3

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If he has a valid reason for it (my bf hated stuff touching his face. Big time sensory issues) that’s fine, but if you’re goofing around with it and he’s an angry no, dig into that

12

my bf is cool w all of these except makeup :( but i suck at makeup and he has a beard so not a lot of room for me to work w anyway so issokay lol

11

if they don’t like one of these things but say “oh but it’d be fun if we did [other feminine thing]” then that’s comfort with his gender/being associated with femininity AND expressing boundaries in a healthy way ‼️ double green flag

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trust me on this guys

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My bf is really fun but I don't paint my nails so I think he would be confused if I asked to paint his. As far as makeup goes, that shit is expensive. I wouldn't waste it on him for shits and giggles.

10

my bf has 2 younger sisters so he thinks nothing of me wanting to paint his nails or do makeup on him lol

8

my dad told me he would never want to be called pretty and wouldn’t wear a pink backpack, meanwhile my bf loves when i call him pretty boy and when we were at a music festival he held my bright pink backpack w flowers on it all day gonna marry him stg

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Horrendous and liberal take

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