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OK, I need help trying to figure out the definition of friends with benefits. I have already looked it up and it gave me the actual definition, but my definition is a little different.
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Anonymous 5w

So basically, I had a friend with benefits for a few months. And recently I found out he ended up hooking up with another girl, even though him and I were hooking up every single weekend except for the recent two weekends. When I think I’m friends with benefits, I think of the friend I can go to and only hook up with themand no one else.

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Anonymous 5w

So now I’m really confused on what I’m supposed to do. I can’t even confront him because he hasn’t even messaged me. He doesn’t know that I know because my friend told me about the situation. He had a hickey on his neck and my friend asked him if it was for me And he said no it’s from sorority girl. So then she had to call me to confirm it. I don’t do hickeys around the neck or when it’s visible.

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Anonymous 5w

I have already asked one of my past friends with benefits. I got his opinions. And the fact that the recent one is 24 years old and I’m 26. I don’t even want to be friends with benefits anymore, that wasn’t even my plan in the first place.

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Anonymous 5w

You were the definition of a friend with benefits. Now you’re not friends at all it seems

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

See that’s what I’m thinking too. I personally don’t share and I’ve mentioned that to him. I still take friends with benefits as like a Situationship or technically a relationship without the emotions.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I would say that an FWB is someone who youre friendly with but also have sex with. A situationship would be a little more exclusive than that imo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Say I looked up at FWB and understand the difference, but also a Situationship confuses the person on the feelings while friends with benefits. You know what you’re getting yourself into.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

But what I’m saying is even though a friends with benefits, I wouldn’t be hooking up with other people because that’s actually disgusting when you’re hooking up with one person for multiple hook ups

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