Anonymous #2 21h

we have talked abt it, and he’s frustrated too (not more than i am), but it’s still not fair to me when he can easily get off

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Anonymous OP 21h

Okay then introduce sex toys into the mix and talk about things you like. I know I can’t have an orgasm with penetration alone. Get a vibrator to use during sex if you think that will be good for you. There are definitely solutions to this. I hope he’s open to it because if he’s not, he’s gotta go. He has his needs met already and you don’t, so he needs to be open to making it all about you and what you like until you figure it out. Good luck!! ❤️

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Anonymous #2 17h

Yeah the truth is that it’s super awkward to critique sex!! But it’s also NECESSARY for the health of a long committed relationship. Don’t let your frustration create resentment between y’all. If he cares he’ll put effort into it but you’re probably also the only person he’s practicing with so it’s not going to be immediate. My fiancé was a virgin when we met but it only took like maybe 3 months & now it’s fantastic, but I have health issues that made me more experienced communicating my needs

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