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Girl Talk 14h
Okay be fr with me. Is 19F and 26M to big of an age gap?
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Anonymous 14h

yes

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Anonymous 14h

19 is like beginning of college in 26 is several years out of college. completely different stages of life baby he could be your mentor

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Anonymous 14h

He wants to go on a date tmr and has already said before mentioning the idea of a date that he wants more than a kiss. Lowkey don’t want more than a kiss, let me know how I can politely say no to anything more. Cuz I’d be down for a date but not if it’s just for him to get my body. Yk?

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Anonymous 14h

Yes

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Anonymous 14h

For context: we both attend the same university and met last night while I was on a date to kiss someone

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Anonymous 14h

those ages are in completely dif stages of life and we still have so much to learn grow between 21 and 26. also ironically at the same older men don’t seem to be much older or wiser 💀

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Anonymous 14h

You have to ask yourself why a “grown” 26yo man is attracted to a freshly graduated from hs girl?🥲 WEIRD

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Anonymous 14h

It’s on the bigger end but not a red flag. My bf is also 26 and I’m 21, it depends a lot on context and how y’all met but at the end of the day it’s legal so don’t let others influence you

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Anonymous 14h

*dare

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

I second this, age is just a number, but the story of your love is a big hit on if it’s red or green flag

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

I completely agree, my bf and I initially met from a niche chat room for the school we go to on here, bc of common interest, so we became friends before anything else, the age gap was kinda learned later on but we already got along super well, so yes the love story is a big aspect about green vs red flag.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

No

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Last night I made out with a guy 6 years older than me and I have serious regrets. We literally only made out. No sex, no groping, nothing. Don’t do anything that you’re not positively comfortable with

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

And that’s okay, He wasnt looking for someone younger intentionally, it’s just sounds like you guys just hit it off at a party at a college a place where all ages are accepted at so you can’t possibly know anyone ages until you talk to them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Respectfully thats too fast even for me, you can just tell him that your not comfortable with it and you need to get multiple dates before you guys get into that stage, and if he doesn’t respect that or ghost you then that’s where you need to leave him

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14h

I’m a junior in uni tho

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Up to you then🤷‍♀️ you’re just at totally different stages of life. I’m 22 and would already never go for 19 cuz I feel too old - makes you question why 26 can’t stay in his age range

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