I was in a group chat with three guys and four girls last year and it was my main friend group and now all of those three guys have been credibly accused of SA
But yet “I’ve never met a guy who…” is the first thing out of almost every guy I know when I say guys mistreat women
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Anonymous#14w
It’s heartbreaking. I’m grieving
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AnonymousOP4w
It’s definitely going to be a hard thing to come to terms with but I hope you know their actions don’t reflect on you especially if you didn’t know about them and actively are distancing yourself now
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Anonymous#14w
Yeah we cut off the first two and I found out about the third just yesterday and I was processing so I’m planning to tell the other girls today
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Anonymous#14w
The weird thing is, when the first allegation happened, both the other guys didn’t defend him, they just cut him off with the rest of us. When the second allegation happened, the last remaining guy led the charge to go off on him and block him. Now he did it, too???
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AnonymousOP4w
I think sometimes the more a man reacts the more they are covering up their own terrible actions but it’s not everytime so I’m sure it was a complete surprise
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Anonymous#14w
it’s crazy that guys say they’ve never met a guy who has done it, but almost every woman i know has experienced it :(