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advice: I'm a sophomore in college and i've been chronically single my whole life. i have high standards, and i am not attracted to the guys that are attracted to me. i don't really care to get into a relationship or get married to someone. +
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i've just accepted the fact that i'll be single the rest of my life because i don't want to lower my standards because the last time that happened the guy treated me horribly. i'm still a virgin but i want to have sex and i've been thinking about hooking up with people. i honestly don't know what to do because i don't think ill ever get into a relationship but i also want to have sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

so what are you like 20 years old and you think you can predict what dating will look like for the rest of your life?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

it’s not a prediction it’s what’s happening and it’s what is going to happen😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

except you don’t know that and again, you are still a child. all your peers are still children that have a lot of growth and maturing to do so i’m afraid you’re literally fine calm down

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

the issue here is not dating and i fear you didn’t get that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

yeah it can feel lonely and yea it can be difficult when your peers seem to have it figured out but first off—they don’t. people our age currently going through the worst relationships of their life. second it’s way too early to say you’ll be single the rest of your life man your reality now won’t necessarily be your reality forever

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

girl idc about this. i don’t feel lonely. like i said, the issue here isn’t dating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

sorry i got the sense that you’d prefer to have sex if in a relationship

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