Anonymous #2 1d

no it’s not

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Anonymous OP 1d

ig have fun mothering your bf for the rest of your life then? like genuinely how he’s behaving and treating you is not normal and is not a healthy relationship. you shouldn’t be feeling frustrated you’re not being listened to by someone who should be your partner. especially when it comes to how they touch you like that’s such a red flag

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Anonymous #2 1d

sometimes I feel like he listens and sometimes I don’t feel like he does.

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Anonymous OP 1d

you shouldn’t be with someone who doesn’t listen to you. you deserve better than someone who treats you that way

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Anonymous #2 1d

I feel like he really does listen to me. It’s just I tell him a lot of things I want so sometimes I feel like I’m being irrational. It’s just an initial disappointment or frustration. That makes me mad.

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Anonymous #2 1d

it’s ok, he’s really perfect and i feel bad a lot of the times because i feel like i tell him way too many things at once. i don’t want him to change bc he’s amazing. just feels like im not being listened to at all

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Anonymous #2 1d

i do feel like a lot of the times he really listens so sometimes i feel like i’m being irrationally harsh. i just needed to vent

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Anonymous OP 1d

i’m ngl if the relationship is making you feel like this it’s very very unlikely it’s healthy. you know your situation better than me so you can make whatever choice you want but just from my own experience and what my friends/family have said about their relationships… feeling like you’re not being heard is not the sign of anything good. if you talk to your bf and he changes his behavior it can def be improved, but the feelings you have aren’t going to go away if the situation stays the same

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