Orgasm can only be achieved if you can get out of your head and into your body, which requires you to stop thinking about how you look to your partner, what you’re going to do later, etc. This is often really challenging for women who are influenced by social structures to constantly be thinking about their appearance

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i get real close but haven't had anyone but my vibrator get me all the way.

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Yeah I’ve only ever had like mini orgasms w a guy, like it sort of happens but nowhere near what it feels like when I’m on my own

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honestly you have to get lost in the moment and not be in your head if you’re cracking and thinking about something different then it’s not gonna work but if you’re in the moment then it’ll help a lot

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I do too

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I dooo :( but it still feels rlly good for me so I don’t mind

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yeah and this happens when im jorking it by myself also. Usually its cause im too in my head and the only way ive found for me to get out of my head is just ignoring my thoughts and focusing more on how im feeling by ramping it up for myself some way

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I’m going to say, i am very proud I have almost never had a problem finishing with a guy I’ve had consensual sex with. It makes me really sad when women are unable to. When I have sex, I imagine myself in a position of power over every part of my orgasm. I am in control of my pleasure. I am in control of the guys pleasure. If I’m not enjoying it, it has to stop. The guy needs to do everything in his power to make sure im pleasured. In the meantime, I tell myself I am beautiful, my boobs are

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I love my bf and I love having sex but I can't finish at all. I feel tingles in my vagina but not like a full orgasm.

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