Girl Talk on Sidechat | I have a ‘friend’ who doesn’t make me effort to do anything together for years or doesn’t commit. Granted she has 4 kids now and yesterday made it clear she had parent friends. But still.. it hurts there’s wasn’t commit at least w me all this time.

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Girl Talk 2w

I have a ‘friend’ who doesn’t make me effort to do anything together for years or doesn’t commit. Granted she has 4 kids now and yesterday made it clear she had parent friends. But still.. it hurts there’s wasn’t commit at least w me all this time.

Anonymous 2w

Same thing happened with me. I never really asked her to hang out often bc I knew she was a mom and busy. I would at least offer to get coffee for her birthday to catch up, even said I could pick it up and we could just be at her house (she has 2 kids). Every time she would say yes and then bail an hour before and never attempt to reschedule. And I know she was hanging out with ppl bc she posted it or mutual friends would. She only had interest in hanging out with her married and mom friends.

Anonymous 2w

Like she has taken more time to be with our old friends in the past when she freshly had 2 kids. Hung out with them more, I felt more like a tag a long in the group. They all hung out, even went on vacations a few times. Then she ‘befriended’ someone who she would openly talk shit on even during, and now she’s a mom too and ‘she’s changed’ person. Ppl like her don’t change. They cover their ass. Still, more contact w her than me and I have tried biweekly to make a plan w her.

Anonymous

OP 2w

Or even at our job, we usually wear leggings as dress code, and I’m sorry. Not sorry. She has an inverted ass, and yet she the manager who yea I’ve known for a long time, say I have no ass and she’s got more than me. Where? It doesn’t help her case she’s heavy on top, I’ve remained slender and even lost 30 lbs of inflammatory weight. I don’t have a huge mound on my back but at least I can wear shorts and see a cute little under hang. It just infuriates me.

Anonymous

OP 2w

I’ve been there for her when she had kids, offered to help out when she needs it never picked up my offers, blew off plans, always blames it on some family death or her kids like okay I didn’t choose to have them but I choose to make plans to work around it and never comes forward. But she got ‘fishy’ in January bc I basically removed myself I told her why, and again blames it on the same stuff. Just not a good friend but also I’m not sure how to make friends on my own as an adult.

Anonymous

#1 2w

Like if I don’t fit in your life anymore just tell me bc I’m feel dumb trying to keep a friendship. I don’t understand why so many ppl ditch their single/not mom friends as soon as they have kids. I was literally a bridesmaid in this girls wedding. But I finally stopped trying to reach out, and I am pretty happy now not dragging it on. The most we talk is texting happy birthday, which is weird bc we used to be best friends and text every day