Anonymous OP 5w

My sister one night literally asked me what I thought about her roommate and I had to hold back on saying I think I’m literally in love😭 we drove together to bowling and had such good conversation. She is so amazing is all. I’m bi & she’s pan. I just wiiiish they weren’t roommates and we got more time together somehow. Idk what to do goddamnit

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Anonymous OP 5w

What I’m getting at kinda is that I think my sister thinks we’d be good together and I simply agree. Idk. Me and her are talking to other people rn so like idk. We know each other’s lives and goddaaaaamn idk. Maybe one day. 😭 I think someday stars will align. I hope.

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Anonymous #1 5w

*they’re roommates not you’re (typo)

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Anonymous #1 5w

Yes yes no I understand you, and I think if it made my sister uncomfortable she wouldn’t have asked me if I was interested in her roommate. Idk. It makes meee kinda uncomfy because I’ve gotten involved in a relationship between my brother and his friend before and that didn’t pan out. I just don’t wanna get involved if it is gonna eventually go nowhere you know? I think for now I wanna play the long game and just stay close to her, I know it’s a gamble but I think if it’s meant to be it’ll be.

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Anonymous OP 5w

That’s why it’s sooo frustrating!! And I hope that makes sense, that’s why I post it here , just a little bit of a vent as to how my night went yknow. Can’t rly talk to anyone else about that I trust enough/WANT to talk to about it if that makes sense; I just think no one would rly understand and say the same thing you said, which makes sense!! But like I said, I just don’t wanna get involved if it goes nowhere and I ruin a friendship tier

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Anonymous OP 5w

Ngl I think that’s always the best route. If it’s meant to be the spark will stay, if you end up seeing her different after some time then it was always meant to be that way. That’s my opinion, at least, and I’ve been through a good number of relationships I regret 😭

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Anonymous OP 5w

Also there’s nothing wrong with being interested!! That’s so valid, and also it’s fun to have crush so I hope you have fun with it and feel good about it AND yourself throughout all of this ❤️

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Anonymous #1 5w

It’s okay and honestly in my opinion a good thing you’ve been through relationships, I think it shows your strength in getting through the end of them if that makes sense. You’re entirely right about the spark thing. I haven’t known her super long yet and it just needs time, it’s just something that feels so right so soon yknow. Thank you for your response it genuinely means a lot that someone understands <33

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Anonymous #1 5w

Bestie are you still around. I’m wondering if I should text her saying thank you for playing games with me<3 I also made sure to buy her a redbull tonight when she got one at the bar. I juuuust maybe am trying to be a little slick idk

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Anonymous OP 5w

I would say like “thank you for driving me there and thank you and your cousin for playing the arcade games with me and I had an amazing night<33” something along the lines of that

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Anonymous OP 5w

Tbh I think that’s harmless, I’d say it like even if it’s just a friend I’ll text them something like that and if she’s interested she’ll reciprocate with the same energy — I’d say go for it! No harm no foul

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Anonymous #1 5w

Bless your soul, I didn’t think it’d be weird but the external validation from an absolute random 3rd party who doesn’t know much is lowkey what I needed lmaoo. I’m such a pussu for it lowkey but it’s def bc it’s a crush!!!

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Anonymous #1 5w

Fuck unfortunately there are two of the same named friends so I don’t think I have her number specifically, think I’m just gonna dm her on ig but lowkey whatever I think she will keep it on the low honestlyyy!!! I’m so scared LMAO it’ll be fine

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Anonymous #1 5w

DM’d her and LMAO idk like I said just scared bc it’s such a bad crush. I hope she gets the point. Maybe I start sending her reels. I’m sorry to blow up your phone #1 but just thank you for being virtual random emotional support 🥹 have the best day ever queen and I love you so much sincerely

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