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I’m sorry, but trauma is not an excuse to have a kid you cannot raise, and I am not talking to people who did not have a choice, so don’t be in my comments. Take accountability and yes I been through trauma and have no kids. Cause I used my fuckin brain
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Anonymous 3w

I think a lot of ppl who comes from bad homes have kids bc they picture this idealistic life and crave unconditional love and that’s the only place they can find it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I don’t understand having a kid, an innocent child who has no knowledge of what’s going on, they bring them into a fucked up situation that they can’t even get out of. They have no support, no resources. They are barely surviving themselves. That’s so selfish. And many times they end up abusing the kid. The kid falls in the system or the kid ends up having behavioral and learning difficulties. Sometimes it’s all 3.

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