Anonymous OP 3w

So we met on tinder and he was nice and it was casual flirting and chatting and I got his number and we were talking for a few weeks and he scheduled the date. Two days later he made plans with his friends the day of our date and told me we may have to reschedule, I was like “Okay whatever” we rescheduled for the next day of the original date. The day of the date comes around, I get up early and get ready, I text him telling him I am at the spot..

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Anonymous OP 3w

He had been partying with his friends the night before and he just woke up when I texted him. (Probably a lie). So now I am kind of pissed bc he cancelled again. We didn’t talk for the rest of the day. Btw I had told him I had been in an abusive relationship that really fucked me up. He took it well told me he would never do that. Anyway today he decides to text me and asks me when I am free this week bc he felt bad for canceling.

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Anonymous OP 3w

He wants to have a date tomorrow at a park on my schools campus at 6pm. I don’t get off work till 6pm, he schedules it for 6:30pm then. Still not a lot of time but I say fine anyway bc I do really like this guy. I start thinking more and I just got a flashback of what happened to me in high school after I visited that exact park and I just got anxious and texted him telling him I wanna meet somewhere else bc I want to be cautious and I don’t want him to take offense to it, it is just me

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Anonymous OP 3w

Well he takes offense to it. He basically said me even thinking about him doing anything bad to me made him feel horrible. I apologize and tell him I didn’t mean it about him, he tells me I don’t need to apologize but he then tells me he has four sisters and he would never treat a woman badly and because of that he doesn’t even wanna meet me.

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Anonymous OP 3w

Anyway so now I am crying and hurt and I just needed to get that off my chest bc what the actual fuck. We’ve been going so good for like three weeks and I was really excited for the date

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Anonymous OP 3w

rule of thumb for future dating, never text longer than 2 weeks before meeting and NEVER continue talking if they've cancelled twice. he sounds like he wanted a penpal. someone who really wants to date you won't schedule plans and not be able to make them esp for their first time meeting you

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