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Ew this is the weirdest mindset “Pure” 🫩🫩🫩 sex isn’t a dirty thing, it’s human nature
157 upvotes, 8 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "Ew this is the weirdest mindset
“Pure” 🫩🫩🫩 sex isn’t a dirty thing, it’s human nature"
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Anonymous 23h

Both are weirddd, one prioritizes sex and values women based on their distance from the norm (women who shame vanilla women, calling women prudes if they choose to not do certain actions, “freaky Olympics”), while the other prioritizes “purity” as if a woman can be tainted by the act of sex. (Shaming women who do have sex, shames women for anything away from the status quo, encourages rape culture). Both prioritize men and sex in different ways.

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Anonymous 23h

🤷‍♀️true but that's just apart of some religions and it's someone's personal choice. There's nothing wrong with waiting till marriage or not.

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Anonymous 21h

I absolutely DESPISE purity culture

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Anonymous 18h

what the fuck is even pure how do people actually take that virginity shit serious it doesn’t even exist a man can’t tell the difference

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

There’s nothing wrong with waiting but calling yourself “pure” and shaming women who don’t wait is weird. Virginity is a social construct put in place by men to control women by making it seem like men have such an impact on your body by having sex with you🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

I agree. Alot of sex talk center men in some way or another unfortunately.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

Been saying this for a while

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7h

EXACTLY the term pure seems so predatory, ppl who care sm ab it are so rooted in misogyny they don’t realize it🙄 I feel ppl who have this mindset think sex is some life altering experience that makes you a new person when in reality nothing changes🤷🏼‍♀️

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