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is it normal that i got upset with my bf for watching an anime that kinda sexualized the girls? No he doesn’t watch them all the time, he always shows me what anime’s he’s watching and he didn’t try to hide it. He just thinks the anime is funny🧍🏼‍♀️
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Anonymous 4w

most animes sexualize girls unfortunately

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

yeah, he likes the anime’s that are centered around a male main character and he usually always watches them around me. He found this one on tiktok bc of the funny moments like ranking thing, he sent it to me and he started watching it with me and i was like oh hell no

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

yea in your case maybe just ask if he didn’t watch those certain ones around you, there’s no harm in him watching them imo, it’d be different if it was like straight up 🌽

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

yeah okay, this one is just like worse than the other ones, like ik anime gives girls big bitties but this one showed like a full frontal of the girl naked. I told him it upset me and he didn’t understand why at first but he said he wouldn’t watch anime’s like that. He said the last time he saw an anime this bad was when he first started watching them. Bc i’ve seen his crunchy roll history and it’s all like either cheesy rom coms or male centered action like the one we’re watching Tokyo ghoul.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

so it’s not like he just watches these all the time, maybe i overreacted a bit thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

ahhh i gotcha, yea full frontal naked is a little much. it seems like ur bf is trustworthy tho, it’d also be v different if he were keeping it from you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

yeah definitely, no he sent me the tiktok and he started watching it by himself and i was like oh whatcha watchin and he restarted from the first episode so i could watch it with him because he had already watch the first 2 episodes. I honestly don’t think he really thought about it because he kept seeing funny moment clips on tiktok, and he genuinely was laughing at it so i think he just thought it was funny but.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

def good there doesn’t seem to be any bad intentions, personally i’d just ask if he didn’t watch around me and maybe not watch too much of those kinds of animes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Anime and male-centered fan service (aka over-sexualized women) go hand in hand and is something you have to go out of your way to avoid, leaving you very little media to consume. You honestly just become desensitized to it. So yeah, unless he’s literally just watching ecchi, lolicon, and/or hentai, getting mad at him for it is misplaced anger. Also, Tokyo Ghoul is awesome & those “excessive” scenes play a role later on. Def keep watching

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

i love tokyo ghoul and it’s really not as bad, i like most of the anime’s he watches and ik that like yeah they have big bitties but it didn’t need to have full frontal nudity and all of it out. He understands that and said he wouldn’t watch it and just stick to his normal anime’s bc he usually doesn’t watch anime’s like that he just saw it on tiktok and didn’t know at the time that it was that bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Unfortunately, there’s a lot of really good anime’s that do that too… you kinda get used to it and start ignoring it tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

yeah i get that, ig its probably that i didn’t watch anime until I met him so its kinda new/weird to me ig

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