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i feel so guilty. but is it valid of me for wanting to break up bc i’m exhausted and feel like i can’t give the person what they deserve right now?
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Anonymous 1d

Don’t do that. Only break up if it’s his fault you’re feeling that way. Otherwise that’s kind of messed up of you…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

but i don’t want to become a bad partner. i’m in an incredibly stressful spot. and at the end of the day im living for me not him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

ignore that bs. it's perfectly valid to end a relationship for that reason, it's not the end of the world, if he's a healthy and mature individual he will be fine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

did he say you’re a bad partner though? don’t hurt him because youre not doing well. It’s not the relationship causing that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

i understand what your saying. just bc he never explicitly said i’m a bad partner doesn’t invalidate my feeling of wanting to step away from it. in fact i think it’s proof that i don’t feel he can’t support me, and the relationship is causing further stress in my life.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Fair and also idk why people are downvoting me so hard I’m just trying to give advice as someone that WAS the partner being stepped away from. If it’s causing you stress than that’s worth leaving girl

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