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He’s taking a 12 hr trip to visit me and I just know he’s gonna expect sex. Im a virgin and I honestly still don’t think I’m ready 🙁
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Anonymous 20w

He made that choice, if you’re not ready you don’t have to do a damn thing

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Anonymous 20w

As a virgin, girl use your damn voice and communicate that before that happens? You are in control of your body and your desires. Don’t just sit back and be anxious about whether he will want it or not wtf

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Anonymous 20w

Update: he’s not expecting it we are good!! Thanks girls 💓

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Anonymous 20w

If you’re not ready, that’s all that matters. Don’t feel pressured into doing it. You don’t owe him sex

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Anonymous 20w

tell him before he comes let him know you’re really excited to see him and spend time with him but that you aren’t sure if you’re ready for third base yet 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous 20w

pls 100% tell him this before he comes so u don't have any uncomfortable moment of him trying to come on to u

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

Thank you, I’m so nervous

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

No need to be harsh damn. Sometimes I’m iffy on it because of the way he makes me feel. I’m just unsure of how I’ll feel when he’s actually here maybe I’ll end up changing my mind on a whim. I’m just nervous jeez 🫠

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Girl … good luck cause um yea 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w
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