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bro sometimes i hate how guys don’t see me as like a person bcs im chubbier like okay💔🫩
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Anonymous 1d

Ok but the same guys don’t see skinnier girls as people either, they see all women as objects meant to be enjoyed by them that’s why they’re so rude to u just bc they aren’t personally attracted to you. They all dumb as fuck

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Anonymous 1d

don’t get on ozempic. it fucked me and my friends up so bad, took our ass/boobs first and then gave us ozempic face and made us hurt all the time. i got off and have started gaining some weight back because i hated myself skinny too. i think the key is just learning to be okay with yourself at whatever weight instead of trying to be what you think others would like more.

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Anonymous 1d

it’s so annoying

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Anonymous 1d

How I feel as a 5’7 dude

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Anonymous 1d

no fs, like i’ve been working out and losing weight, j sucks that you hv to in order to be treated nicer

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Anonymous 1d

yea ofc calorie deficit is the way to go and getting steps in

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Anonymous 1d

yeah i think when you care too much about other peoples opinions of you it doesn’t work as well. you have to decenter other people. especially men. they will never be happy with women’s bodies.

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Anonymous 1d

bring heavier isn’t the opposite of being beautiful. i’m 5’2 and was 180 at my largest and have had a boyfriend through every stage of my weight. if you’re changing yourself just to find someone, they definitely are not the right person. vanity is nothing & comparison is the thief of joy

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Anonymous 1d

if someone isn’t attracted to you at every stage of natural weight fluctuation, they are not the right person. i was able to ask out whoever i wanted when i was bigger and had no issue with it because ive always had confidence. guys are easy. all you have to do is be nice. i’ve literally never been approached by a man. i’ve made every first move and always had my way with whoever i wanted. it really isn’t a body image issue.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

yup you have to be more selective than them anyway when picking who you want to be with. men are EVIL.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I don’t think it was ozempic specifically it’s just what happens when you lose fat as a girl. Genetics play a role but u generally can’t choose where to keep the fat so everything gets smaller. I guess the only thing u could do is build muscle in ur glutes to keep ur ass but not much you can do about boobs. It sucks really I wish people weren’t so critical of others’ bodies

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Last time I checked this is GIRL Talk

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

I don’t care what you have to say tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10h

don’t think ur heights ur only problem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Yh cuz random person downvoted me for sharing my perspective and basically told me I’m not allowed to speak then I said I don’t care what they have to say and that indicates I’m a bad person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Does that make sense to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9h

relax, u probably were downvoted bcs it’s a girls channel and you’re not a girl. ur allowed to speak and complain but why in a girls channel?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

I like scrolling on here to see girls perspectives and give myself some insight I saw a post i resonated with and decided to comment Apparently this is a problem and me not wanting to concede to that somehow indicates that my character is bad?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9h

didn’t say ur character was bad, j said ur response of u not caring wasn’t needed, and it showed more abt ur character

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

You kind of implied it though by saying my height isn’t my only problem Me saying idc what she had to say and h this context shouldn’t be viewed as bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9h

ok babe we’re dragging this, my point is this is a girls channel, ur obvi gonna be down voted and wanted out of this channel. you can hv opinions and perspectives and see things you resonate with, but at the end of the day ur not a girl. you saying idc was perceived as kind of hostile if that makes sense, that’s all.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

Fair

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