Anonymous sissy 8w

erm i mean a man in gt…… (/J /J /J)

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Anonymous #7 8w

how is this performative? it’s a guy leaving girl talk because he found out his gender identity lol

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Anonymous sissy 8w

hey thank you haha, i honestly knew for a while but only just truly came out & felt like man i should probably leave this group too since i see how yall talk abt male lurkers

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Anonymous #1 8w

that's super interesting, if you dont mind my asking what made you realize you wanted to be on T as a woman? and same question but different angle, how did you know you werent trans if you were so masculine as to wanna be on T? nothing wrong with it im just super curious as someone who just started T & had been a masc woman for a while before

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Anonymous #1 8w

oh related to T itself, what are the effects you enjoy vs dislike about it, and why?

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Anonymous #7 8w

i know i just wanted to say bye since yall have been nice to me & i didnt really know how to phrase it that didnt sound like a customer service email LMFAO

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Anonymous sissy 8w

ily sissy thank u for defending my honor

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Anonymous OP 8w

ofc ofc, it’s what i do

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Anonymous OP 8w

Butch. The gender is complicated but im mostly woman cuz im a lesbian. Ill dm you ab the effects

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Anonymous OP 8w

Wait i cant dm you. Rlly the only effects i dont like is the neckbeard i have to shave every day and the sweating, although i got used to that. Everything else is great

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Anonymous #8 8w

i love women yall are rad thank you for the grace my friend 🙏

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Anonymous #10 8w

And happy (belated) pride month king 🏳️‍⚧️

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Anonymous OP 8w

You 100% know that this doesn't apply to you though. You could just stay and no one would bat an eye. Just look at the comments As a trans man, you can always sidestep the resentment directed at cis men if you mention that you’re trans. As a social experiment, try seeing what happens if you say positive things here what disclosing that you’re a man while never clarifying that you're trans and see how that goes

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Anonymous #7 8w

pack it up buddy

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Anonymous #7 8w

Hey so either you’re not respecting this person’s gender identity or you’re suggesting he acts like a creep. Both are bad. Something tells me YOU are a man doing this exact thing, bc what woman would say this in a woman only space? Not a Girl’s girl.

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Anonymous #7 8w

Girl everything online is at least a little performative, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t genuine either lol

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Anonymous #11 8w

That’s fair

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Anonymous #11 8w

Not a girl’s girl?? I’m talking to a MAN. Don’t accuse me of not respecting their gender identity when you’re still implying that they’re a girl

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Anonymous #7 8w

? I’m not calling him a girl?

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Anonymous #7 8w

Im calling you a man, or im calling you not a girls girl, for encouraging men to stalk and post this chat for women secretly

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Anonymous #11 8w

Like another commenter said, he is welcome here when he needs bc he was socialized as a girl and so knows our experience to an extent. I’m not against him. (OP, don’t worry!) But the whole “as a social experiment” and “see how that goes” feels very 😬😐 not promoting the purpose of this chat

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Anonymous #11 8w

yeah i know what you mean & like.. the whole point of this post is "i'm not a girl so i'm going to leave this community" & then #7 steps in to be like "you can stay here but only because ur a trans man, if you were a cis man everyone would tell u to leave. try pretending to be a cis man and see what ppl say then" like what is ur point? it just comes off as a man being bitter that he's not given the right to peek into this community like trans men are

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Anonymous #11 8w

thats why i said pack it up buddy bc it just seemed like a man 😭

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Anonymous #11 8w

not to be the friend that’s too woke but “male/female socialization” is a talking point commonly used by terfs against trans women to invalidate their experiences and label them as a threat. most trans people, men, women, and everyone else, experienced misogyny growing up

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Anonymous sissy 8w

yeah no. “everyone” did not experience misogyny words actually mean things.

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Anonymous sissy 8w

Its likely people will continue treating op as a woman until hes farther along in his transition, if that is the route he decides to take. Him and cis women will continue sharing social experiences, so I don't quite get your point

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Anonymous #8 8w

Also men, with some exceptions, experience misandry, not misogyny

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