Anonymous #2 7w

I think that’s a totally fair boundary to have for yourself but I do think I personally can consent as long as within a reasonable limit and I kind of resent the idea that no one is capable of consenting under the influence. It’s definitely more dubious that I will accept, but I rarely get so drunk or high that I don’t feel in control

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Anonymous OP 7w

i feel like it’s totally different if you’re too drunk or blacked out. at that point i would say you can’t consent ykwim. there’s just a fine line

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Anonymous #2 7w

I’ve never blacked out tbh so it’s kind of hard for me to imagine but yeah I think I would be against that. Cause part of my practice is like checking in the day after and making sure we were both okay with everything we did. If we can’t remember then what yk

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Anonymous OP 7w

i mean if you have sex w someone blacked out and the person isn’t aware of what’s going on that’s considered assault.

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Anonymous #2 7w

like if you can check in and have conversations that makes more sense but as someone who has been blacked out before unintentionally i would consider someone having sex w me in that state as sexual assault

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Anonymous #2 7w

Yes I totally agree. I was more imagining like if I had sex w someone and then we both ended up blacking out like not remembering the night before that would be really scary.

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Anonymous OP 7w

yeah no it’s so scary fr i don’t remember doing things from that night

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Anonymous #3 7w

I’m starting to think this is a lesbian thing cuz why am I only hearing lesbian couples be like yeah we do this lmao (me included)

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