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I’ve been dating my boyfriend for two months (first bf ever), told my family about him, my mom has pictures of us saved in her phone, I’ve told him everything about myself, and he broke up with me over something I told him about on day one.
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Anonymous 1w

Good riddance tbh

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Anonymous 1w

What was the thing?! That’s so awful

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Anonymous 1w

Wtf

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Anonymous 1w

6 month rule

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

he knows what he wants to do in the future but I don’t have such a solid plan, I’m just working to get my degree. We’re only college freshmen btw 🫠

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

That’s how I’m thinking now lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Ofc you don’t have a solid plan?! He shouldn’t either bc things change and you guys have barely taken classes😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

the way i fucking face palmed… i’m a senior and just because i always knew what i wanted to do in life, doesn’t mean i expect anyone else to. my little sister is a sophomore and she changed her major earlier this year… i don’t expect people who are 18 to know what their plans are either????

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Like I’d understand this sentiment if you were like… just out of college/college senior or in the workforce , but freshman?! Yall just got here-

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

i knew what i wanted by age 12, but i don’t expect EVERYONE to know that especially at such a young age. it’s one thing if you were like in your 30s and not having a life plan or career goal, but 18??????? that is completely normal and acceptable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Yeah I think realizing how ridiculous it was is all the closure I need

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

good!! i’m glad you don’t seem to feel like you’re to blame, because you’re not. not knowing and not having a plan at your age is all a part of the experience of growing up.

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