Anonymous #3 4w

What if for extra context he said he’s not emotionally stable enough for a relationship right now but told my friends he does find me attractive

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Anonymous #2 4w

I see what you’re saying but in conversations I’ve had with him he’s made it clear he’s not interested in hooking up

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Anonymous OP 4w

Unless he explicitly states he’s interested, don’t pursue it, it’s so easy to become a toxic relationship when they’re avoidant like that

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Anonymous OP 4w

emotions and attraction are two things that need to be in harmony when DATING and getting serious with someone. him just finding u attractive doesn't change the fact that he'll never be able to do anything but fuck u and be ur friend

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Anonymous #3 4w

I get the first part but I mean it’s nothing to be upset about because he’s taking time for himself right, like it could still become something

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Anonymous OP 4w

no. it's a bs excuse to string u along. if he was taking time to himself then he'd stop talking to u fully, getting with u while simultaneously making time for u is a sign he ISNT taking time for himself and is just using it as an excuse to not commit

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Anonymous #3 4w

He isn’t getting with me though and we’re still friends he just said he needs time to figure out his meds and he still has insecurities from his last relationship

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Anonymous OP 4w

i personally think it is a waste of time to wait for someone whose telling u they still have stuff like that to work thru before thinking abt a relationship

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Anonymous #3 4w

I would agree about the waste of time thing and I don’t want to be like I’m here when you need me it’s just I don’t have other options and because of that I’m naturally a sitting duck if that makes sense

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