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Girl Talk 12w
My BF took a sexual picture of my ass while I was sleeping, after I told him I have trauma around pics like that and I don’t send nudes. He apologized, but should I forgive him???
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Anonymous 12w

hey so that’s a little more than a red flag i think

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Anonymous 12w

Delete them (make sure you also delete them from the “recently deleted” folder) and leave his ass

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Anonymous 12w

Absolutely not. You set a boundary and he broke it then invaded your privacy when you were unconscious.

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Anonymous 12w

go through his phone and delete them all completely, delete your number, dump him, block him, if he tries to reach out id threaten legal action. that is fucked up

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Anonymous 12w

Hey so if you already told him about ur trauma prior that is a violation of you and your boundaries and he should make changes to his behavior in addition to apologizing.

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Anonymous 12w

I definitely wouldn’t

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Anonymous 12w

Wow thats really fucked up

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Anonymous 12w

but how did you find this out .. like if you’re gonna tell a story tell the whole thing

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Anonymous 12w

Go through his phone and delete the all the photos he took that you did not consent to. I bet you there’s many more.

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Anonymous 9w

Im breaking up with him yall thanks for your input 💗💗💗

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

I found out bc he gave me his phone so I could airdrop photos to myself, and when I went into his photos app I saw the pic of myself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

The fact that he hid it from you makes me think it’s not the first time he’s done that to you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

that’s definitely not his first time doing something like that that’s just the first time you caught it

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Anonymous replying to -> thiefie 12w

why was this downvoted???

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

I have no idea 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

probably because it’s terrible advice but we know how male centered y’all are in here so it tracks

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

How is it bad advice? Genuinely asking.

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Anonymous replying to -> thiefie 12w

read the rest of the comments and get a clue

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

they’re agreeing with the other comments???? and if op for whatever reason decides to stay with him (or even if she doesn’t) a change in behavior absolutely needs to happen

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Ohhh I see how it can kind of be male-centered, given that my advice is emphasizes the man making changes, my bad

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Anonymous replying to -> thiefie 12w

In an ideal situation where the man didn’t realize his actions were hurtful and is willing to make changes then my advice works, but given his actions seem to go deliberately against OP’s previously stated boundaries, it’s unlikely that this is the case and is absolutely a reason to ditch him.

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