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Girl Talk 19h
Lost a shit ton of weight over the summer (~45lbs) and the difference in treatment is crazy. The amount of backhanded “you look so good, NOW” and “why are you ACTUALLY tea now” I was beautiful then and I still am, don’t pmo.
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Anonymous 19h

ppl that are like that when ppl lose weight pmo so bad

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Anonymous 19h

Thiss bro anytime I comment on my chub people are all “nooo you’re so beautiful” like girl I LIKE it don’t act like it makes me ugly

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Anonymous 16h

Hate people that do that

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Anonymous 15h

This is why I don’t ever compliment weight loss or I really just don’t comment on people’s bodies, period

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Anonymous 15h

No fr like I would rather you say nothing to me if you’re gonna be rude af

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Anonymous 6h

The back-handed comments are uncalled for

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Anonymous 17h

But like, maybe you weren’t attractive to them prior to the summer?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

Do you really think that would still be appropriate to say? Nobody wants to hear that you thought they were ugly. It's just mean and rude as fuck.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

Theres a way to complement my appearance now without disparaging how I looked.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

But what if they wanted you to know how beat you used to look so you don’t relapse

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

Girl bye

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9h

This is the dumbest thing I've ever heard💀💀💀your opinion is NOT that valuable. Nobody wants to hear it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8h

But mine is the most accurate response. Even if harsh.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8h

The point is that it’s fucked to say to someone. no matter how good or bad they look you don’t have to say anything about it. if you wanna compliment someone and say they look good, just do that. You don’t have to say that they used to look bad or anything like that. even if it is the truth, you can always choose to be kind.

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