Girl Talk on Sidechat | how do u find men to date who actually… think? at age 20? the only real ‘critical thinkers’ i know are girls, like ppl who read books/essays… so many guys just consume chatgpt/tiktok/ragebait, its such an ick. is it true men only get more mature ~30??😭

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how do u find men to date who actually… think? at age 20? the only real ‘critical thinkers’ i know are girls, like ppl who read books/essays… so many guys just consume chatgpt/tiktok/ragebait, its such an ick. is it true men only get more mature ~30??😭

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Anonymous 4w

honestly u have to be engaged in intellectual spaces .. like joining a book club or something. and pray that men grow up

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Anonymous 4w

i still haven’t either and i’m 22😭😭

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Anonymous 4w

Being an intellectual who likes other intellectuals and not older men is the worst rn

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Anonymous 4w

it takes trial and error lowkey, i'm now with a guy four years older and it's perfect!!! he's very immature, has a steady job, his own house, etc. but yeah took a few tries to find him! patience!

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My school is small and conservative too so critical thinkers are RARE

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