
first of all that’s choice feminism - just bc a woman has the ability to make a choice doesn’t mean every choice she makes is automatically feminist. i have seen some pretty nasty comments about sahms tbf, but ive also seen way way wayyy more comments from women (not necessarily feminists) just talking about the importance of financial independence & the danger that staying home carries, and that’s still taken as hate
They definitely do. I want something in between like working from home/ part time/ setting my own hours once I have kids cuz I am really passionate about my career, but I’ve heard shit from both sides. Ppl can be so bitter bc they’re miserable themselves so you just have to do what’s best for you. Being an adult is hard no matter if you have kids or not, work full time or not, so don’t let anyone make you feel inferior.