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Why do I sometimes get the feeling that women who are very feminist hate on women who want to stay home with their children? Wasn’t the whole point that women get to choose what they want? If they are choosing to stay home with their kid that should be ok
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Anonymous 6w

first of all that’s choice feminism - just bc a woman has the ability to make a choice doesn’t mean every choice she makes is automatically feminist. i have seen some pretty nasty comments about sahms tbf, but ive also seen way way wayyy more comments from women (not necessarily feminists) just talking about the importance of financial independence & the danger that staying home carries, and that’s still taken as hate

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Anonymous 6w

They definitely do. I want something in between like working from home/ part time/ setting my own hours once I have kids cuz I am really passionate about my career, but I’ve heard shit from both sides. Ppl can be so bitter bc they’re miserable themselves so you just have to do what’s best for you. Being an adult is hard no matter if you have kids or not, work full time or not, so don’t let anyone make you feel inferior.

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