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Girl Talk 1d
i would like to have a bf for the first time but unfortunately the idea of having one also always scares me
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Anonymous 1d

Don’t be afraid to ask them a million questions to feel comfortable, if they feel weird about it then they’re not really worth dating. If you have any questions I’ve been in 4 relationships, 2 longer term and 1 new. Current is great, last was relatively good but our paths just changed too drastically and our goals weren’t aligning.

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Anonymous 1d

samee

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Anonymous 1d

so real. i cannot imagine ever being truly close to a man. like sharing my inner world??? with a man???

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

my biggest thing is like i’m overly scared of sharing every part of me and getting close with someone and then they can switch a flip and suddenly everything doesn’t matter anymore 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

REAL

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

people dont normally flip a switch, they usually just dont communicate effectively to a harmful point. the more often you date, the easier and quicker it is to see red flags. the best part is youre literally allowed to be so extremely picky lmao, this also means you have to be able to be introspective because you dont want to cause the issues that might inflame someone into exactly what you fear. YOLO

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