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Girl Talk 1w
Late post but I’ve been feeling so self conscious about my sexuality lately. I’ve only had one partner but it feels like I’ve already tainted myself, I know having sex isn’t a bad thing but I just can’t stop worrying about how others will view me if I -
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Anonymous 1w

- want to try being sexual with someone again. It’s been like 5 years and honestly I just really want to experience sexual things again without committing to someone. I wish that kind of thing wasn’t judged so much by men and other women too

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Anonymous 1w

I’ve got a lot of bodies, and it does suck that people can judge if you tell them, but it doesn’t matter if you have 0, or 1, or 10, or 100 ~someone~ out there is gonna react like that number is CRAZY and none of it really is.

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Anonymous 1w

the idea that you have tainted yourself if you have had sex with one person is crazy and we need to work past that. like obviously you think people are gonna judge you because you’re judging you. but guess who is not? me! I don’t care. and a lot of people don’t care. body count isn’t really a big deal if you’re being safe. it shouldn’t come up in a judgemental way unless you’re dealing with someone stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Idk what the point of this is I guess I just want some support or input. I know I could always lie about body count if I’m asked but I’m someone who just can’t lie. How do you guys feel better about having sexual urges because I’m struggling so much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Sorry if this is too sexual for this group I just don’t know where else to talk about it without getting a bunch of guys trying to creep on me I’d really appreciate advice or something though

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Truthfully I used to be kind of a sex addict? And controlling urges is one thing, but if you haven’t in years and you want to try again, you can def find someone who wants no strings. It’s just about keeping yourself safe with that kinda person. Don’t forget that you’re also an animal who can go through periods of wanting more or less sexual action, it’s just how we work sometimes and you’re not a bad person for wanting that 💞

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