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Idk why this is a hot take but for ppl ik irl and online -> if u complain abt ur boyfriend or husband to me and its actually some pretty unacceptable, not normal behavior, and u don’t leave him, don’t talk to me abt him. u having no backbone is an ick
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Anonymous 5w

It’s hard to watch but I would rather my friends never be alone in that situation. I guess I’ve been there so I know how hard it can be when you’re in it. Some people are really manipulative but not at first. It happens slowly and it can be really confusing to go through. Even when my friends didn’t stay shit, I’m glad they were there to treat me well and remind me that I deserve care and respect. Just like what healthy relationships look like. It’s easy to lose perspective.

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Anonymous 5w

it’s not always tht easy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

This is true but some people have never considered leaving the person they wanna give their life to even when they do some awful stuff. Like I’d rather you understand that u could leave and choose to stay, rather than shoot me down

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

the only excuse i have ever allowed (bc im a DV victim) is feeling endangered or if ur waiting to hear about somewhere safe to go / money to come in before they do so

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