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Am I evil for having a small crush if I'm in a relationship? I love my man and would never cheat but if I see someone who is attractive and also nice I'm like oh. But it's a passing thought. I feel so horrible
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Anonymous 14h

It’s okay to find other people attractive there are attractive people in the work it’s not like your acting on it

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Anonymous 14h

i wouldn’t call it a crush if you find people in passing attractive, but if it were someone you saw regularly like a coworker, mutual friend, or someone at the gym then it’s only wrong if you’re acting on it and flirting/making moves

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

Yeah I know it's like normal I guess I just feel badly about it because it feels almost like betraying my partner by thinking someone else is attractive and also thinking they're nice too. I think it feels worse when they're nice too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

Yeah I don't mean in passing I mean like people I loosely am aquatinted with but don't see that often or in a very personal sense and would never ever act in any way as to let them know

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