
I wanna start off with: You’re not immoral because of trying to avoid making him feel bad. I do also want to say that it’s okay to talk to him about it too. I’m it can be awkward or embarrassing, but it could lead to you figuring out what you like/dislike and you’d be another step closer to an orgasm.
you’re not wrong- I tell my partners what I want and how I want it. If you want them to rub it, say that. But I also don’t want to ignore the societal issues of how pressured women can be. It’s understandable to not feel completely comfortable and open with how you want to receive pleasure.