I went for a man like this after my most serious relationship at that point ended bc I thought he would be an ass and I wouldn’t catch feelings. Turns out it was a “fake it til you make it” front and he’s actually kinda insecure but very emotionally intelligent 😭 we have two cats together now

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i get it but also my last ex was highkey insecure and it really harmed the relationship so i feel like i kind of lean more towards confident ppl. like i need a partner who is confident in themselves 85% of the time without me having to be there for them, i don’t want someone who’s prone to jealousy or stuff like that yk?

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