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I’m a virgin and it literally BURNS so bad any time I try and use a toy…any other girls like this? even with lube and being aroused :( can’t get it in
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Anonymous 1d

Look into vulvodynia and vaginismus

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Anonymous 1d

could the toy be too big? i remember the first time i fingered myself i couldn’t even handle 2 fingers and had to like super slowly work them in omg sorry this is so tmi but im really hoping it helps anyways could it be too big? if you haven’t you should try just your fingers first just starting with one. and make sure your lube isn’t cold! hold it under some warm water cuz idk if this is just me but when the lube is cold and with a toy it’s like trying to put a fucking icicle inside

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Anonymous 1d

You need more prep, more lube, or a doctors appointment. Maybe all of the above

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

not tmi at all, ur right maybe I just need to go slower or something. like tmi I can get it in, but the movement of it going in and out hurts.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

it’s a burning sensation. I should go to a doctor

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I’m just in a rural area so it’s hard

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

hmmm try making sure the lube is warmed up and if it still hurts after that def doctor

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

ur not broken at all tho it sounds like vaginusmus to me tbh. causes could be physical like past infections or improper lubrication or like psychological like from trauma or anxiety

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