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I’m frustrated that when ever I open up abt smth that I am restricted from in my home like a pet or a garden- I live w my parents and they are over the “maintaining” activities. I get Told by friends I need to get out who have/had room for me to move 🧐
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Anonymous 20w

honestly i distance myself from people like this, people who just observe and enable ur situation without stepping in r weak

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Anonymous 20w

R those really your friends tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

I had some friends who always spoke of the idea but never made the effort to maintain long distance friendships then to merge our lives together. Or I uproot myself to be with them. Then my friends had a few spots. I wasn’t mentioned fs. My ex is up my ass offering me a place- I’m not ok on that. And 1 person who maybe would bc it would be pity on me if needed. Old roommates didn’t even have jobs through school and peers had their own arrangements prior. Never had the opportunity to move OUT

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

I would if I could by myself but my career makes it hard to manage self, social, and 2 jobs. It would be damaging in many ways. But I also respect the grind I need to find better ways

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