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I don’t think guys love bomb on purpose. They probably do it like a kid getting a new toy and is running on a high.
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Anonymous 4w

Isn’t love bombing always on purpose? It’s a manipulation tactic

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Anonymous 4w

Not a lot of people are aware of the fact that they are manipulative in some ways.

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Anonymous 4w

It takes weird planning/charisma and probably a good amount of emotional intelligence to lovebomb someone intentionally and successfully. And it’s so unlikely someone has all that. If they did, that would be supervillain levels of evil and not as common as some of yall make it out to be.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yes it’s manipulation but my random idea is that I don’t think they know what they’re doing much so probably not on purpose?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

if it’s manipulation it’s on purpose

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

or they just like attention and how it makes them feel to get that love back and take it away. it doesn’t take a lot to be inconsiderate and selfish

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Ik it’s been said alot but insecurity probably fuels sm of it to want to “control” love and loving behaviors like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

i’m sure it is! insecurity does not excuse being inconsiderate and selfish

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Yuppp it’s ok to be insecure but not when it affects other people

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