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Learning that people like you most when you just prompt them to talk about themselves has always felt like such a huge betrayal. Bc on one hand it’s a great tactic but then the person you’re talking to knows nothing about you
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Anonymous 1d

This is only if u meet selfish ppl btw !!!!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Wrong lol everyone loves talking about themselves, it’s only human

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Nah I mean if they dont recirpocate the questions back duhhhh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Well yeah, but also some people lack social skills. Not selfish, just a lil socially inept. It happens more than you think, not everyone is malicious

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

This happens with like 90% of people I meet where they don’t reciprocate my questions😭 I think it’s just society nowadays

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

You’re prob not asking open-ended questions, those always get a convo going. But also just trying to get them to reciprocate your questions is what’s holding you back. Just yap naturally, don’t focus on those kinds of things. Listen with intention. Trust that when you are intentional, people follow suit and you become more confident and magnetic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I do listen, I remember almost everything what people say and ask them follow up questions in later convos and when I next see them based off of what they said w/ no expectation of reciprocation and my questions are very broad and deep! 😭 Confidence and magnetism I do lack though……… as well as good looks😳

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Ngl you might be trying too hard then lol, just don’t force it. Be yourself and talk about what you wanna talk about and let others engage. Convo is a back and forth movement, you engage with what’s given and pitch in with your own bit. Just go off of the vibe. Idk I just yap, I don’t expect to be asked anything but that’s lowkey why people ask me stuff…cause I don’t expect it and also engage with them, make them feel seen.

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