Anonymous OP 5d

Yea drop it. I’ve had “friends” like this. They don’t want to be around you, and that’s ok because there are thousands of other people that will love you

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Anonymous #1 5d

When she can’t hang out she texts me for a bit afterwards abt her life n things but doesn’t follow up. We haven’t had like a consistent hang out type of relationship since we were like small kids, but I’ve been attempting to change that by reaching out more. Her behavior is very on par w what it has been, but I just can’t tell if she’d rather I stop until she feels like asking me to hang out herself

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Anonymous #2 5d

She seems pretty happy when we do hang out n has expressed before that she’s grateful that I’m friends w her

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Anonymous OP 5d

tell her that! if your relationship has been a certain way for this time she's probably just used to it, she wont know where ur coming from u less u tell her fr

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Anonymous OP 5d

Actions speak louder than words

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Anonymous #1 5d

Tell her what exactly🧐 like tell her that I’m not sure if she’d rather me reach out less?

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Anonymous #3 5d

I feel like she might. She’s been blunt in the past

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Anonymous OP 5d

"hey girl, i know we've talked about me taking things too personally before when it comes to u and me so i thought it would be better if i just came straight to you. I know we've always had the type of relationship where we're kind of distant sometimes and dont hang out a lot but I'd really love to change that and for us to talk and hang out more often and its why ive been reaching out so much lately, but ive been feeling like maybe we're not in the same page since whenever i ask you say no -

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Anonymous #1 5d

and our convos usually die until i ask again a while later. So i wanted to see if its just cause ur busy and kind of get caught up in ur stuff and forget about me cause ur so busy or if you just dont really want to hang out with me anymore"

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Anonymous #2 5d

Also yeah the convos abt me taking things like this too personally were abt me w diff friends lol😭 not w her. I’ve told her abt me cutting ppl off who didn’t put in a lot of effort n she basically expressed that maybe I shouldn’t have done that

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Anonymous #1 5d

since u just said that the convos about u taking this too personally wasnt with her u can take that part off and switch up with like "i just feel like im putting most of the effort into this relationship" or some shit like that

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Anonymous #1 5d

Thank you for ur help! I appreciate ur responses!

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Anonymous OP 5d

happy to help 🙂‍↕️🙏

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