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I like this guy bad but we only dated for 3 days then he broke up wit me cause he “can’t mentally be in a rls” and is “dealing with sm loss” (his granny passed like 2 weeks prior and they just had her funeral like the day before then someone else passed).
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Anonymous 12w

I’m sorry but u said yall only dated for 3 days and he’s going thru a ton of losses. Ofc he’s going to be distant, he’s already dealing with heavy stuff and he also hasn’t known u long. It sounds like u should just let him be honestly

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Anonymous 12w

yea girl let that man be, he knows he doesnt have the capacity for a rls rn and clearly needs his space. he will likely be weird and crying bc thats what grief does. id take a step back and let him reach out to you

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Anonymous 12w

Continued: Throughout the whole breakup, he was leaving me on read/not responding back; I wanna give him the time and space but I’m starting to loss hope on whether or not he’ll come back. We texted like two days ago because I went to go pick up my bra he found while cleaning and he was pretty..weird I’ll say. When he said “here” and handed it to me (he waited til I rolled my window all the way down, I expected him to toss it in there), his voice sounded raspy as if he was crying

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Anonymous 12w

Where do you find these pieces of shit?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

He also said during the breakup that he would be mute and it would fuck up the relationship, so that’s why I didn’t think much of it fr but it was kinda eating away at me so I texted him asking if he was okay and he said “it’s a lil hard seeing you go” “And I hate to see you go but I can’t be in a rls rn”. And like I said I wanna give him that space when I texted him that I missed him, he js left me on read..am I being selfish about this? Because I feel like it’s something deeper

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I only said we haven’t dated that long, we’ve know each other for a bit now and I was actually there for him during one of the death, not saying that info is valid but regardless I see what u mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Okay thank you, I was asking my irl male friends and they just kept calling it weird and shit so that prompted me into my overthinking that it was something deeper

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

So I was right he had a whole girlfriend on the low no one ever died

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

So I was right he had a whole girlfriend on the low no one died

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

INSANE AND DEF A 1 IN A MILLION CHANCE OF HAPPENING OMFG HE IS DEMENTED

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Sarasota, Florida

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