I think having the baseline hope that I actually like my husband and not just drawn into from desperatation or having spent so much time it would make sense. Or that he is taller than me so much so that I can go above those ugly ahh kitten heels. Or that I can have high high hopes that it’s just one specific guy that I will need to tell me it’ll never ever happen before I walk down that aisle. I’d say at least the first two are achievable. Hopefully.

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That’s easier said than done, not wasting my time dating someone who isn’t in my face IT material. And usually that first comes off from 3 traits I like and then personality is just right to match mine and make me laugh

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Being tall, charismatic, and either tattoos or facial hair is genuinely not asking for much I just live in an area where I don’t find anyone to be attractive dead ass it’s bad

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