Anonymous #1 19w

Okay so basically I met this guy at the bar like 2 weeks ago we hung out for like 2 hours and then we went back to our friends and then he saw me outside again and came back over to talk to me. He seemed super interested and said wanted to see me again the whole spiel. We exchanged numbers and were texting for like a week. I texted him on Friday and haven’t heard a thing back. I’m pretty sure he’s ghosting me but my friend said I should text him and ask if he wanted to get drinks still

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Anonymous OP 19w

Im hesitant to because I don’t wanna seem desperate or be the girl that can’t take a hint. But part of me is thinking what if I miss out on something because I wasn’t brave enough or something. Also context with super interested as well: he knew from the beginning I wasn’t going home with him and we kissed everything like that. But over text he was good he just didn’t really ask me any questions. So basically do I text and see if he’s still interested in drinks or do I spare my dignity

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Anonymous OP 19w

Respectfully queen he’s trying to fuck and when he realized you weren’t he ghosted

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Anonymous #2 19w

He knew within like the 1st min of us talking that wasn’t happening. I directly told him but I wouldn’t put it past a guy to pursue anyway but like thats the other part I’m just flat out confused

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Anonymous OP 19w

Unfortunately no does not mean no in their view

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Anonymous OP 19w

If for the week that you guys texted he didn’t seem like someone you would actually to spend time with, I’d say honestly no need to text him again. It might be a blessing in disguise. Had he shown more interest about you by asking you questions rather than just speaking of himself I’d say certainly reach out because sometimes life gets in the way. But you yourself don’t think you should? what ever you end up doing you know what’s best for you! goodluck queeen!!

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Anonymous #1 19w

But see that’s the thing I wanna get to know him but I haven’t really had a chance to figure out if he’s someone I would wanna fr spend time with. Why are boys like this bruh

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Anonymous OP 19w

I personally believe that you are able to figure it out through how texting went that week, it seems like you just have fomo instead of being that interested in him yk?

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