
ain’t no gold to even dig in. these men think doing the very bare minimum gives them access to a woman as if we’re not our own person. hate us cause we’re not their property, maid, sex doll, etc. the amount of times i seen this / be in this situation is so disgusting. why do such horrible people exist
genuinely an old guy my dads age trying to groom me rn. trying and failing thank god. and i’m stuck next to him for assigned seating!! he needs to leave me tf alone tho or im gonna have to slime him out idc how old he is ill tell the professor and move him. grown ass man with a wife and kids mind you.
The issue is that men don’t understand what rape is. Yall think it’s holding a woman at gunpoint in a dark alley when in reality, it’s not taking no for an answer, being coercive, manipulating her, and pretending she’s not blacked out. Idk your circumstance, but all I’m saying is that you clearly did something that made her feel that way.
I was raped and you’re sitting here arguing with an actual victim about nonsense that you’re spewing and acting like is a much bigger issue than it is. Is your life ruined? No. Is there a high chance of men being falsely accused? No. Do you know how hard it is to prove rape? The justice system wants you to have a camera in your vagina essentially to prove that.
What’s with you just randomly making up shit and getting mad about it? You accused me of calling somebody a man because they don’t agree with me, which I never did. Also autism isn’t an excuse to be fucking weird around people by the way, if a girl rejects you, and says no, it means no. Autism or not you have to respect consent. Deadass what the fuck are you on
No like I agree with you, but Emmett Till was more because he was a black child who entered a white store, and then was murdered. The false accusation of him whistling at the lady was said to be a lie by the men who killed him, just so they had an “excuse” to kill him. It was more bc he was black than anything else. I think the streamer is a better point for your case here.
But I think that women who accuse men falsely are bad people. I don’t think that’s okay, and I support there being a punishment for that (also more importantly I think that news sites that report on that have a duty to correct the story after a false accusation is proved). But at the same time, too many women who do come forward still aren’t believed, and real rapists are left out on the streets. I don’t know a good solution to these two problems, and I can only help that bad people are punished
Because they never cared to begin with. I’ve also been falsely accused and but they secretly believe that it’s deserved for all the suffering women had to go through. This is the same reason I stopped trusting them too—they like to talk about men having no empathy but they’re the same (the toxic, divisive ones at least)
How tf am I supposed to speak for anyone else here but me? Be reasonable. All I can tell you is that in my case, there was a girl I was talking to that kept trying to hookup and I denied her multiple occasions. I took an interest in her friend and then she said that forced myself on her after she rejected my advances Your attempt to discredit all of us rn rather than hearing wtf we’re saying and express even just a tiny bit of empathy is why men are waking up to the bs
Look man, i love women, and have some amazing women friends in my life, but some of you are just downright evil and deceptive. But until the good men and women start coming together to find ways to deal with our bad apples, we’re not going to get anywhere We can’t make the bad ones not exist, we just need to find out how to deal with them. You should engage with these talking points rather than mocking them if you actually want things to be better
most of the time he’d never get sent to jail… why are y’all obsessed with saying “you shouldn’t believe potential victims, what if it’s a false accusation”? most of the time, accusations never even make it to court, and it’s better if they do: definitive evidence may come out, proving the accusations false. if y’all didn’t do it, you shouldn’t be begging people not to look further into the situation 💀
Yeah because the justice system is fucking racist, and black people are often falsely imprisoned. It could’ve been a million different things, like a small weed charge, for example. These times it just happened to be a false rape accusation. If they were white they would’ve gotten away with it.
“ most men who rape are from a certain demographic” um excuse me?? If you’re talking about the demographic of Reddit incels yeah you’d probably be right considering most of them feel entitled to sex but if you’re talking about Black people, you need to stfu Being falsely accused is terrible- but of those ppl that are actually found guilty it’s hardly ever white ppl and of those falsely accused it’s typically black ppl- RIP emmet till
You can acknowledge that false accusations are terrible well also acknowledging that they are both rare and unfairly, target black men under aggressive stereotyping. But you will never m be able to see the truth or prove guilt or innocence unless we support women. If women cannot face justice in our court systems are mistreated in our police stations, are blamed by society and can’t even get their rape kits delivered to a testing site how do you expect any real justice?
Poor white folks still benefit from a large amount of privilege dude- I’ve seen the propaganda on black men and white women, the stereotypes of aggressive black men still pervade today and our prison systems are filled to the brim with mainly over policed black ppl. Your socioeconomic status does put you on a lower tier of privilege but you still hold many privileges over black men for the sole reason that viewing Black people as aggressive, is incredibly ingrained in our culture
I would ask you to like slow down and formulate your thoughts in a way that is readable- (“they do”? Do what?? Steal catalytic converters? An entire demographic does that? And who is we and why is your roommate relevant??) - but I really don’t have the patience to teach why racism is bad to a grown man. I heavily urge you to look into the prison industrial system, the 13th amendment loophole, the school to prison pipeline and old propaganda vs new on stereotypes surrounding black men
I just had the same conversation with 11- please educate yourself on the prisoner industrial system the 13th amendment loophole old and new aggressive, stereotyping propaganda around black men the war on drugs and how you can possibly compare statistics from over policed neighborhoods to predominantly white ones. The issue that’s some of you guys have that you would rather confirm your own biases then face reality and reality is that our current justice system is not just.
“ it’s just statistics” I promise you do not need to suck off numbers because you think that if information is purely quantitative, it’s automatically logical. Statistics happen within contexts. We are aware of sampling errors and study limitations, but then refuse to look at them. If you over police a particular demographic then you automatically create a sampling error. It’s also incredibly important to distinguish between a charge vs a conviction vs plea deals that’re often under duress
“ people naturally recognize who and where there’s crime” honey that is not logical it’s confirmation bias you see what you expect to see and when you find a proof of what you expect to see you, use it to confirm your own biases- If you also see the way, our justice system is corrupt and heavily favors white men do you really not think that our enforcement system wouldn’t hold that same bias? Tell me do you know what the war on drugs was really about? Do you know about the Tulsa race massacre?
most ppl aren’t saying she did nothing wrong, they’re just calling for more research into postpartum and putting attention on the lack of resources for women in that situation. you can feel bad for her/say she should have had help AND say she should face consequences at the same time
Well they didn’t officially declare that it was premeditated & they are still trying to decide whether she could tell right from wrong at the time. People who knew her say that she was a devoted mother and nothing pointed towards her doing anything like this, so that’s why people are expressing sympathy for her. School shooters usually outwardly/consciously premeditate things so it’s different especially if she really was in psychosis