
Think of how upset your friends are at seeing you make a fool of yourself. I loved my bsf, but she ended our friendship bc I ‘wasn’t supportive of her engagement’ because I was genuinely traumatized after she tried to unalive herself after they had an argument a few weeks before. I tried hard to sympathize with her then, but now I realize she was pathetic to stay in a relationship like that. I say it with love; don’t be the person that your friends find pathetic