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orangepopcornn

i’m so tired of people defending taylor bc she’s a woman like if that video showed dakota doing that there’d be no discussion
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Anonymous 1w

For some reason I thought this was referring Taylor Swift and I was so so confused

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Anonymous 1w

before anyone starts i don’t wanna have an argument about this i’m just spewing my thoughts

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Anonymous 1w

I agree but I also don’t like how people are making Dakota out to be the complete victim. They are both abusive

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Anonymous 1w

they are both awful human beings. i used to think it was just him but she is also terrible. her behaviour in the new season completely SHOCKEDDD me like god they are both so horrifically toxic i hope they can heal

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Mutual abuse is a myth, in abusive situations one holds power over the other

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

It absolutely is not a myth

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Talk to any experts in the field. This myth harms the victim

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

The research says that but can you explain how? I don’t mean this in an attacking way at all I just haven’t been able to understand how two people can’t be abusive at once /gen

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I definitely believe some of it is reactive abuse on Taylor’s end but let’s not pretend like she’s not crazy anyway, even before Dakota

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Bc abuse involves power dynamics so one person will have power and control over the other. Doesn’t excuse the abuse of the reactive abuse but it puts it into context

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Taylor would be in a more powerful position than him anyway lol she makes more money than him and has more notoriety. Yes, he looks better in the situation bc he painted himself out to be the victim. Instead of leaving, he clung to his kid and put them in as much harms way as Taylor did

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

imo after following her drama and circle for like 5 years, watched all the police body cams, read the police report, have heard things about Dakota from momtok she most likely has BPD and Dakota is enacting narcissistic abuse against her. She reacts with reactive abuse. Her ex husband said she never acted this way with him but his ex wife said he was extremely controlling

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

& I didn’t say she didn’t have issues (I don’t like using the word crazy) it’s clear if you follow her she has lots of trauma and doesn’t handle it in a healthy way

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

true I agree with that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

The real victim here is the daughter tbh

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