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need advice I’m friends w/ two girls who constantly hang w/o me - they make plans to go out w/o me & the 3 of us were watching a show together & i saw them watching w/o me. We were planning a trip to NYC & I was really looking forward to it but now idk…
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Anonymous 3w

coming from someone who was in a trio for years & always felt this way cut them off

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Normally I would, but I live with them so I don’t really know what to do. And we already booked a hotel for our trip so I don’t know how I could back out of it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

damn that is a hard position to be in, you just need to distance yourself honestly especially since they’re planning things without you & acting like you don’t exist

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

as far as the NYC trip I would literally just be honest & tell them you don’t wanna go anymore but I know the hotels are expensive up there so if you don’t wanna waste money still go & have fun like fuck them honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

It’s hard bc when I’m with them I do have fun it just kinda bugs me how they leave me out of some things. Like I obv don’t have to do everything with them but the show thing has happened a couple times and that sort of thing annoys me like idk if they’re even thinking ab it bc I’m usually doing something when they start and then go downstairs to get dinner and find them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I would express my feelings to them then especially since y’all live together that’s the only other option I can think of

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